This is a very sensitive article that everyone wakes up and face the reality. Lot’s of foreign men’s says that Filipinos women or transwomen asking money online. Is this called a gold digger? or a scam? Anyways, I am telling you that not all are gold diggers but some of them are used to it.
I am not pointing out only to transwomen but also even genetic women ask money to a foreigner. Mostly Filipinos think, that if a Filipina marries to a foreign man is rich which is not true. Anyways are you marrying only his money? Where is the LOVE? You love the money not him. The mentalities of people that they think that to foreigners are rich and taking advantage of that. Not all westerners are rich just an ordinary person too. Some foreigners think bad to Filipinos because of what they experienced like sending money online that makes them think that Filipinos are a gold digger.
I am a Filipino transwoman and I agree that there are lot’s of gold digger around but I also defend the rights of innocent one because not all Filipinos are like that (gold digger). Decent people who have a good and nice job can’t do that. The educated person who knows what is bad and what is wrong. I am a Filipino who have heart, feel the real love and sincerity and have faith in God. So you know that we are not that materialistic it’s just a stereotype.
People, who do, asking money to foreigners they have a reason too why? Anyways, I am not pointing out only to foreign men that these gold digger asking money only with them but even to a Filipino men’s gold digger ask too. They have this manner already in the mindset how to make a deal to there victims.
COMMON ISSUES ABOUT ASKING MONEY ONLINE
Here are some recurring reasons, the most typical.
- Asking money because no work and no money to pay the electric bills, water bills, internet bills or whatsoever bills.
- Asking money to buy a new gadget or a gift because of her birthday.
- Asking the help of money for the operation of breast implant or beauty enhancement.
- Asking money because she needs to buy a medicine, she told she was sick.
- Asking more and everything what’s in her mind to make you scam to play with you.
More dramas that make you pity her. Asking money to pay the tuition fee for school. Asking everything to make support financially for her and to all her families. More dramas like split up or break up and find another one who is deserving if a foreigner can’t send what ashamed!
These are common issues I heard online scammed based as I talked to men as what they experienced. But maybe some foreigner don’t know these kind of scenarios so this blog helps for them just to aware of these kind of dramas.
A friendly message to all boys who experienced these kinds of mudos sorry for him. Beware of this kind of dramas, avoid sending money online not really good to trust 100 percent because at the end of the day you will regrets. Friendly reminder, if you’re in a relationship and your girlfriend asks for help especially money it’s up to you if you want to give or not it’s your decision
Some girls abusing you if you give and give and give every time she asks. This is mostly happening in a long distance relationship. Anyways, maybe you can help a small amount but not often. Maybe you can help which is not against in your heart too. As I said the decision always depends on you because your Filipina girlfriend will not force you if you want to give or not. It’s not your obligations to support her financially.
NOTE: SORRY GIRLS FOR MY WORDS BUT A MAN IS NOT A FINANCIAL PLAN! YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULD NOT BE YOUR SOURCE OF INCOME. IT’S-A RELATIONSHIP NOT A JOB OPPORTUNITY.
RELATIONSHIPS OF FOREIGN PEOPLE TO FILIPINOS.
Many of us seeking a soulmate, we go online and visit ONLINE DATING SITE – MY LADYBOY DATING SITE. Our purpose finding a good friends boyfriend, soulmate or even up to marriage. The mentalities of some Filipino girls (genetic woman) or transwoman finding a rich foreign boyfriend online. Anyways I didn’t conclude about these mentalities because as I said above, not all are the same were not materialistic it’s just a stereotype. A member who is not serious about the site automatically kick out by a moderator. The scammer and gold digger beware in the decent dating site.
So my blog post is just to give advice to everyone but doesn’t scare anyways to visit online dating site especially if you are single, as I said DECENT DATING SITE does not tolerate fake people scammer or gold digger. Don’t ruin everyone trust continue what you feel in your heart and pursue what’s in your mind. We Filipinos and foreign are in the good relationship when it comes to dating. Some are afraid to find again, a Filipina girlfriend but all I can say is don’t afraid don’t give up its part in our life if you failed at first there’s always a second time to try. My advice finds a real one who has beautiful lovely hearts and souls and that’s what really loves not a gold digger or the one who loves only your cash. So, I am hoping for the best and that all will be well.