Are Men who Attracted to a Transwomen are Gay?

This debate of whether Men who are attracted to Transwomen are Gay is so old already. Science has already proven to the world that they are not gay. Arousal patterns of Trans Oriented men are very different from Homosexual Males. For the benefit of everyone reading this, I will explain once and for all.

So let’s start.

Difference of gay and transwomen attraction

Let us take a closer look at Gay/Homosexual Men. I’m  pretty sure you have at least one or two gay friends right? You know they’re attracted to Men and Only Men. Why is that? Because they’re attracted to Male Secondary sex characteristics. They’re attracted to musculinity and that’s a fact. That’s what keeps them attracted from Males and not to Females.

Now let’s take a closer look at Trans Women. Trans Girls are people born biologically male but transitions to the opposite gender. By undergoing  Hormone Replacement Therapy, the result of transitioning is developing secondary Female Characteristics, hence they appear more feminine. With success in transitioning, A trans woman will have little to less masculine features.

This is the reason why Gay people are not attracted sexually or Romantically to trans women. It is because they’re attracted to masculinity which trans women have little to none of coz of HRT even tho most transgirls still have a D down there. Same reason why Straight Men aren’t attracted to Trans Men tho most still have V down there.

If you’re a straight, Ask yourself if you’ll be attracted sexually or romantically to the man? The answer is NO right? But if you’re a straight ask yourself if you’ll attracted or romantically to the transwoman? Definitely YES right? Why? Find out here  look a transgender woman here. So you see? It isn’t the genitals you get attracted to. It is by how masculine or feminine someone is.


Now looking at men who are attracted to trans women, we know they are attracted to Femininity which trans women have. They’re not attracted to guys because they don’t have the amount of femininity that would fill in their attraction. They are also not going to be attracted to Gay men. It will all boil down to the totality of femininity of an individual.

There are several studies proving that men into trans girls aren’t  gay. This one is an example. In this study, they tried to measure sexual arousal of Heterosexual Men, Gay men and Gynandromorphophilics ( Men attracted to trans women ). The results were that GAMP were sexually aroused to Straight and Trans Porn but not Gay porn. Gay men were aroused to Gay Porn, A bit of straight porn and not Trans Porn.

“Results: GAMP men had arousal patterns similar to those of heterosexual men and different from those of homosexual.”


So, the answer to the question, are men attracted to transwomen is Gay? is a Big NO. And science even proves it. And even me proves it. I put my self an example I am a transwoman and my partner is a straight trans oriented man. Living in Philippines a roman Catholicism country. He loves me as a woman my femininity, my look, wearing dress, mini skirts, sexy shorts, high heels and completely like a woman 24/7. I don’t see or hear people calling my partner GAY while walking together in the street. Were living like a normal couple as man and woman and we are the most happiest couple on Earth.

But anyways, who are we to judge? Weather you are Gays, straight men, Bisexuals out there we are all HUMANS. But if you don’t feel anything no attraction at all so maybe that’s not normal. So, come and take a  look beautiful transgenderwomen here.

NOTE: This is a post made to answer the question. There is nothing wrong with being Gay. It doesn’t make you less of a human being. Because, your attraction is not define who you are but a pure love that you given to the person you LOVE is the most expensive GIFT. LOVE KNOWS NO GENDER, it’s about two thirsty souls.


Author: Roxy

My name is Roxy, I’m 29 and this blog is the story of my transition to becoming the woman I always felt to be. Moreover, how is living and growing as trans woman in the Philippines.


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