Trans Dating and Building a Long-Lasting Relationship

Are you thinking about trans dating in Asia and hoping for something serious, not just a short experience but a real relationship, maybe even marriage?

Happiness in a relationship is a choice. Commitment is a choice. And many transgender women today are living happy, stable relationships with men who love them openly and without shame.

I’m so proud of them. Proud of these brave trans-oriented men who come out .

Who are honest about who they love and who they are.

What is a trans-oriented man?

A trans-oriented man is a man who accepts himself and his attraction to transgender women.
He is not hiding.
He is not ashamed.
He walks beside his partner in public, holds her hand, and shows affection without fear.

And no, a trans-oriented man is not gay.

My own boyfriend is an example. He is from Italy. He has never cared about what other people think. He holds my hand, kisses me in public, and makes me feel loved and safe. That kind of openness matters. It builds trust, confidence, and real connection.

I love him, and I am proud of him.

This is, I believe, one reason for a long-lasting relationship for every relationship especially what they also call a relationship with a third-gedner woman.

I’d like to share some tips based on my experiences. Hopefully it will help you to figure what to value in a relationship with the person we love too.

And I know it, we girls always dreams fairy tales, wedding dresses, marriage and lovely happy endings.

If you are a trans Filipina like me, you know it is not yet legal yet in the Philippines. But don’t get discouraged by that, you can still find some friendly a friendly pastor who marry you and your bf. Even if not legally, it is still something you can realistically find in our country.

Just keep positive, knowing that in some foreign countries legal progress for LGBT marriage has been made,  like European and some parts in U.S.

Plus, Trans dating in Asian countries  is also encouraging emancipation and recognition. I’m hopeful for the better in the future.

Let’s go back now to the tips I mentioned earlier.

What makes a relationship last

Based on my experience, these are the foundations of a long-lasting relationship, especially when you live together:

1. Trust your partner. Do not control or monitor them. Everyone needs freedom.
2. Respect privacy. Phones and personal belongings are not yours to inspect.
3. Care for each other even during misunderstandings. Do not give up easily.
4. Spend real quality time together. Presence matters more than quantity.
5. Be honest. Do not hide important things. Treat your partner as your best friend.
6. Stay independent. Grow as a person even when your partner is not beside you.
7. Learn each other’s habits and boundaries.
8. Control jealousy. Confidence is more attractive than suspicion.
9. Keep affection alive. Less arguing, more understanding.
10. Stay positive. Negativity destroys relationships.
11. Take care of yourself. Be clean, confident, and presentable. Or more in Filipino saying “Must be yummy all the time (fresh, clean, smell good, look good and cute). 🙂

A relationship is not defined by how long you have been together, but by the foundation you build together.

TAKE NOTE: A relationship is not defined by how long you have been together, but by the foundation you build together.

TRANS DATING – Love, trust, and visibility

I and my boyfriend are still going strong even if we have sometimes  the typical misunderstandings,  which are normal in every relationship. I bet you have yours too, and that’s why I thought to write this little guide. Hopefully, you can build a stronger relationship relating to our story.

Trust and Love, these are the two most important things that needs to have in every relationship. Don’t matter if you are a trans woman or not.

This is so important, and not to under estimate.  You can’t love without trust. And if there’s trust, love sure can bloom, which in most cases is true.

Small gestures matter. Showing affection in the public are nice small things, just like walking hand in hands or a surprise kiss.

I adore when men wrap they arm around my waist. Makes me feel like I’m truly his partner, makes feel more than a woman.

These things may seem small, but for transgender women they carry deep meaning. They say: I am proud of you. I am not hiding you.

We face discrimination every day. Having a partner who stands beside us openly makes us feel safe and valued.

Always remember that a small effort can make big difference and this is what a secret for every strong relationship strong.

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Long-distance and living together

If you having a long distance relationship, communication is very important. Always keep in touch is essential.

A simple message to say Hi, Hello, How are you? How’s your day? What we sometimes call also TLCs. A kind message that makes one realize that you are never forgotten.

It makes feel both better, especially when  you are busy in your daily life. It means that you are thinking about him or her. Also five time to respond your partner messages, dont be insistent.

In a long distance relationship, is not a hindrance staying connected with each other, but a must. Thankfully, today we have technologies to keep easily contact with our loved ones, even in far places thousand miles away.

When living together, shared time matters as well. Watching a movie, cooking together, going out occasionally. These moments strengthen the relationship more than grand gestures.

If there’s some arguments or misunderstanding talk that after when you are feeling better. Just calm down first and later on talk what makes you mad or sad or whatever it is.

Be open minded always. Try to your relationship with fewer arguments, don’t take that argument can destroy your relationship.

Poor communication is what causes breakups.

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